He will feel it from afar and hopefully get over his issues and start talking to you again. You can never forget a great man who came into your life once. Ask him how and when he wants to see his kids, and that they miss him. You told me to go NC for 2 months. I was so hurt and confused by his actions. I really believe that and my life has proven it to me time and time again. In February I went to visit him because I wasnt sure what was going on. How to Make Him Regret Hurting You: 17 Right Ways & What NOT to Do The he stopped it. im sorry if this is long and pathetic. I just dont understand I think he has feelings more than hes willing to admit. 2. The moment you cut off communication, it will feel as if you have cut off his leg. Thats what I would do anyway, just my advice. I had a FWB type situation with a man in an unhappy marriage. hey, Thank you. Now i dont want to chase him anymore because i dont want to look desperate, i want him to somehow make up his mind on his own to get back with me- any way to help accelerate the process? If you want to make him scared of losing you, youll have to work on your self esteem and more importantly Loving yourself. . And does he have a girlfriend at this point? You can write him back, telling him again that you prefer not to be in contact at this point. Thats the person, thats who he is and the best he can be at this point. So I obviously want my ex back unlike anything else. Required fields are marked *. Its o.k. Im trying so hard to not text him or contact him anymore but I really want him back. How to Make Him Regret Leaving You Step #1 - Make Him See What He Lost Step #2 - Send Texts He Won't Ignore Step #3 - Let Him Go (to Get Him Back) The Real Reason He Left You No, he didn't leave you because you left dirty laundry around. Write your and your boyfriend's name on the paper. He again said No, youre amazing. In order to change, HE needs to want to change and from what youve told me here, he hasnt and doesnt want to. Can i get him back again? We started dating again and it was fantastic we spent so many great times together and made amazing memories. Do u think the anger he has will subside. Ive been with this guy for over a year now. Then at lunch, he told me we werent gonna work out. Its been two months no progress if anything I feel its worse and I filed for child support which hes upset about. Why I hide everything. I would look forward to seeing him because I just got home from a family vacation and he would just cancel on me. Did I text wrongly? The last we spoke was 3 days ago that too very formally. We had been fighting recently and I wasnt thw best at communication honestly. Now its even more clear to me that he is not sure about this breakup and that he still loves you. This way hell get a chance to see what he is missing and why he made this huge mistake. I would take a distance and not beg him to talk to you or get back to how he was. Tuitions got over and we didnt have any contact. It will just strengthen his decision. I tried no contact rule. ive never posted on anything like this before because ive never been in such a heartbroken place. My heart ripped in half and then he said that I was constantly making him sad and I was so hurt that I was hurting him. i felt so blind sided and so devastated that all i could do all last week was try to make him see how were meant to be together. I cant handle myself. I hear from friends that he says this sucks and that he doesnt want to look for a girl for a while but he just got tired of him wanting to go out and me not. As we are still living together he was coming home every afternoon and he is cooking tea for us as always he plays music he dance and we laugh a lot a try to put a happy face on and not to cry etc after all problem is I was clingy etc. He hasnt asked me how I am doing and I just think he is done.. And much more worthy too. I was hurt because I had just found out he was also interested in me. Now Im just waiting to see overtime what his reaction to this will be for the second time that is. I dont know why isnt he talking to me. Hi Lisa, where do I begin my boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. On the way back it was weird id go through millions of emotions from crying my eyes out begging for another chance in which he would just say no, he cant be bothered, there is too much water under the bridge, he cant trust me, these are all things he has said before on previous break ups! But want more than sex? Just don't pull the crybaby card in any way, shape or form. Im just afraid he ruined it all for good. If I had to guess, this weird behavior indicated that he has met someone over there, and his anger is caused by guilt feelings. Yes, this even works if he's ignoring you. Ive talked 2him about how i feel and how is actions make me feel and he agrees 2do wot i want him to only problem is he doesnt do it he just keeps doing wot he wants and i mus b the better person and forgive every time and let things slide cause i dont want 2loose him i really love him and i do believe he loves me .