The fact that my daughter is pretty obviously going to be supporting both of them seems like a foolish plan, but there doesnt seem to be much we can do about it, apart from expressing our concerns to her. She said in part: Its very clear to me that divorcing my husband was mistake that I will probably regret The unraveling I failed, and the authorities got involved. Chatting led to flirting which led to a tryst in a city between us. Being good was boring. Do all your friends and family think this marriage is really bad for you and urge you to leave? They ones saying older women are just less marketable are even more vile. Thats on her. .css-1pm21f6{display:block;font-family:AvantGarde,Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;font-weight:normal;margin-bottom:0.3125rem;margin-top:0;-webkit-text-decoration:none;text-decoration:none;}@media (any-hover: hover){.css-1pm21f6:hover{color:link-hover;}}@media(max-width: 48rem){.css-1pm21f6{font-size:1rem;line-height:1.3;}}@media(min-width: 40.625rem){.css-1pm21f6{font-size:1rem;line-height:1.3;}}@media(min-width: 64rem){.css-1pm21f6{font-size:1.125rem;line-height:1.3;}}25 Best Cheap Sex Toys, According to Experts, 12 Amazing Sex Pillows to Level-Up Your Sex Life, Try These Positions If Youre Tired of Missionary, 16 Must-Have Sex Toys for Lesbian Couples, 17 Amazing Bullet Vibrators to Buy Right Now, 22 Best Discreet Sex Toys You Can Take Anywhere, Taylor Swift Posts First IG After Joe Alwyn Split, Ryan Seacrest Gave a Rare Look at Vacation With GF. We have our moments where we disagree and fight but so does every couple. Id be lying if I said I didnt think about my ex. WebLove and hate are both passion; all you are doing is changing the balance from positive to negative. These days, we are happy. Please stop. If they try to justify themselves with Its actually a compliment, respond with, Its not important to me whether or not you intend it as a compliment. So that was a no brainer to give my all to my child who has never knows any other support than myself and my family. I remember one day thinking that if I could just consider her my roommate or friend instead of my wife I could just suffer through it (for the sake of our kid, etc). As anyone can see, I need to get this off my chest. Maybe it means I am an indulgent adolescent artist, but I dont want to be married to my ex-husband, so I am not married to my ex-husband. 2nd is current daughters father and no regret for separation due to his diet and again lack of awareness as a father putting her 1st financially. She could have lied to him the rest of his life. Ask your higher power for grace, kindness, and forgiveness of him, and yourself. Our wedding and honeymoon were great, and I knew I loved him. But the docket moved along so quickly that it was over before he knew it. My fiance was pregnant with my baby when I split from her. im supposed to just be happy and make it work. I made a goal to divorce him this year because I only have one life and I would rather be single for the rest of it, than to deal with what I deal with daily. You wonder why men are stepping away from dating and relationships as a whole. He was a wealthy businessman and my busy go go lifestyle and my sons severe disabilities made me consider the jump to full time stance as a single mother, also I had 0 support from childs father since birth to now. Jason and I remarried at a small little ceremony at my parents' house, and I left that night to move back in with him. I realized that it would take more than words to rebuild his trust in me, so I went to counseling. And how theyre young little minds will have to deal with something that they dont really understand. I wish I would have tried harder and I wish we would have went to more counseling. 2023 Wealthysinglemommy.com, Single Moms: Date, parent and make money like a mother, What is a single mom? Dont offer unsolicited advice to your daughter, who will likely chafe at it, but ask her as nonjudgmentally as possible about her goals, financial plan, and whether or not she thinks her partner needs support. While my therapist frames this as evidence that Im standing up for my needs, Im now worried this is evidence that Im doing the same thing Anna did to her friends. In reality, you are a woman with needs and desires and since we can now earn our own money, vote, and own land in our own damn names, marriages mainly serve as a source of emotional and sexual fulfillment. Would you want to be with someone who doesnt love you?